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Exclusive Occupancy

By Jo Ann Douglas
September 01, 2004

Historically, the concept of “exclusive occupancy” during the course of a matrimonial proceeding has been based on the claims of one spouse that the other is physically violent or otherwise poses a great risk to the spouse seeking possession of the marital residence. While the children are often named as possible or actual victims as well, the concept of the children's best interests has not been associated with an order of pendente lite exclusive occupancy.

Of course, the applications for exclusive occupancy — and the rigid tenacity of the parent who declines to relocate himself (or, less often, herself) — are often founded in the usual laundry-list of reasons that have absolutely nothing to do with where one spouse or the other ends up living. Advice from counsel is often not focused on the children's best interests, but on other compelling issues in the divorce that are allowed to take precedence over the children's welfare, many of which are financially driven.

It is time for this to change. Whether it is the leverage in custody negotiations that holding on to the residence may bring, or the leverage in financial matters that holding on to custody might bring, there is simply no more valid reason to maintain children in a highly dysfunctional, tense and contentious household pendente lite than there is to compel divorced parents to continue to reside together. The entry of judgment should not be the time marker that governs the children's welfare, and judicial note should be taken of this, with legislative action to back it up.

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